For better or for worse, personal development is the primary theme of my life. I might not still recommend each turn in my path, but what follows is a basic outline of how I’ve survived to the ripe old age of 45 as a queer … ContinuePersonal Development Roadmap
TW’s for mention of emotional violence, gaslighting, sexual assault and a host of other related things. UPDATED OCTOBER 20, 2024: You’ve made your way to my coredump reaction to hearing the first series of sexual assault allegations against Neil Gaiman. Would I have posted this … ContinueWritten for tumblr, 6-6-24
It’s been quite some time since I’ve written anything of much substance here, certainly even longer since I have utilized neevita as a sounding board or makeshift therapist as opposed to a marketing campaign. I continue to grow and surprise myself, though at a softer … ContinueBecoming is a lot
Many thanks to my Itty Bitty Hizzy Tiny House contributors John H. $70, Phil B. $50, Scott S. $51.50, Sam L. $30, Eric B. $8, Shatter N. $23 (to get me to $1337. \m/ \m/ ), Edgars K. $50, Jason S. $40, Peter V. $35, … ContinueThings I’ve Learned on the Road
NOTE: I first wrote the below guidelines on a personal blog many years ago, and in the time since, I have again a mere fraction of the physical belongings I did then, now living most-time in a van (which is not nearly so glamorous as … ContinueHOW I SEPARATED FROM MY Stuff
Note: This is, first and foremost, a personal thinkpiece about living with, and interacting with, my own suicidal ideology, followed by resources that have helped me cope. Though I hope my sharing these things helps, the following is not meant to specifically address acute crisis. If … ContinueSuicide
Iconic “romantic” image: of a WWII vet sexually assaulting a stranger by kissing them through observable physical resistance (check the hand) and atmosphere of non-consent. In 2005, during an interview at the Library of Congress Greta Friedman stated of this photo of her, “it wasn’t … ContinueI don’t like being raped; Apparently, that makes me a weirdo