I try to be a big girl and stay focused, do good work and be a good person. I’ve spent a lot of time, energy and money on forward progression and overcoming a lot of shit, in therapy and beyond.
Sometimes, it’s just really demoralizing to be 30 fucking years old and still dealing with the ramifications of this in my life. Sometimes, it really does feel crushing and terrible and helpless. Still.
Hug your kids. It’s worth it.
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/parenting_bonding_reactive_attachment_disorder.htm
